Friday, August 24, 2012

Defining Moments

I received an email from one of our readers this week about changes that she's thinking of making in her life. It really touched me and had me thinking about certain moments in life. There are some moments that help shape who we are and what we stand for. Sometimes these moments can be huge, dramatic events; other times they may be a little more subtle. But still, they are all defining moments.

When I think of moments that have shaped and molded me into the person that I am today (and the person that I'm becoming), I think of a few moments...

That moment when I decided that, even though my pregnancy was unexpected, I was going to be the best mother I could be. And that moment taught me that confidence comes with competence.

That moment when I figured out it made me a more effective mother (and a happier person) to actually schedule time for myself so that I could work out, hang out, or pig out with other grown-ups.

That moment when I decided to apply to grad school, go to grad school, and stay the course until I got my degrees. Perseverance and grit.

That moment when I learned to trust my own instincts and intuition.

That moment when I learned that I AM worth it and left a toxic relationship.

That moment when I learned that I am resilient enough to learn lessons and move forward.

That moment when I learned that single motherhood ain't so bad. In fact, it's been pretty great.

All those moments... they defined who I am today. They weren't always easy moments, but life is full of ups and downs and twists and turns, right? I'm far from perfect and I have a lot more lessons to learn and a lot more defining moments to endure.

But they shape who I am.

And thank goodness. Because I kinda like who I'm becoming.

What were some of the defining moments in your life?

6 comments:

  1. Certainly for me, starting a business was a defining moment because it is so out of character for me. I'm a scaredy cat when it comes to those things. It defined the new career I would have and also re-defined me as a confident person. So long scaredy cat!

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  2. I have my fair share of significant moments that lead me here where I am today.. any regrets? Sure but nothing that would keep me awake at night but enough to help me keep an eye on my kids so that they don't have to go through what I went through like the good saying "Our parents made mistake so that we don't have to"

    Have a great weekend Alicia :)

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  3. you really are inspiring - you make me look and see if i can do anything better
    Xo Megan

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  4. We are who we are today because of those defining moments. I have yet to identify mine, though :). Off the top of my head, I guess one of them will have to be the annulment with my ex-hubby. Yes, giving birth to my girl counts too.

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  5. Oh yes, defining moments make us. Some of mine are: choosing not to run track in college, getting married, and having my 1st child.

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  6. Our past experiences really do shape the ppl we are today, arent we? I wouldnt change mine for the world either!

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